Viagra Nation
A leading article in the Sunday Times today reports that:"for many women Viagra has merely highlighted the incompetence of their lovers"
What a fascinating and somewhat disturbing comment on the sexual skills of many men today. At a time where there is more information than ever before, freely available over the internet and in magazines, it still seems that many men are sadly lacking communication and sensual skills in lovemaking.
For most women, foreplay, both sexual and non-sexual is a critical part of their arousal path so they can reach an orgasmic plateau of excitement. Men tend to think that thrusting is the only way to give a woman an orgasm, whereas thrusting is only one of many “orgasmic triggers” that trip a woman into orgasm or multiple orgasms.
Viagra only works on men, providing mechanical “coupling” assistance only. It is not actually for couples and doesn’t make men into good lovers. For many women, it has merely highlighted the incompetence of their lovers. More crucially, it has laid bare a female secret that many men never knew. Penetrative sex does not necessarily give women the best orgasms – and, depending on which study you read, anything from a third to 52% of women never have orgasms in this way. The Viagra revolution has proved that although super-charged erections do a great deal for the self-esteem of men, for women they often create a trail of disaster. According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, half the men prescribed Viagra don’t go back for more.
July 31st, 2007 at 7:33 am
i agree with the author. we men need to pamper our women and flatter them first so that their body will be on the stage where they want to have sex.